men are visual, women have to give them something to look at, something spicy, something hot, something unique and buy a whole closet of costumes, a mountain of  cosmetics,  a pile of shoes, a variety of accessories, because men will not check out women' soul or thought at the first sight, let alone you have apparent flaw, such as bald head.

men like variety,  they want you to be a red head tonight, to be  the **y milkmaid tomorrow, or the lonely runaway, or the friendly guy from work, they want you to be various and charming women as well as to be loyal to him forever